Unforgettable Gatherings

Host your special moments in a place you’ll always remember. With our breathtaking views of the San Diego Bay and Downtown skyline, you will make timeless memories here for you and your loved ones. From intimate banquets to reunions, birthdays, anniversaries, memorials and more, our expert culinary and catering team will create the perfect menu and set the tables so you can savor your moments.


Dining room with ocean view and sunflowers

California Room

Seating Capacity – Up to 230 guests.

The California Room is surrounded by windows and is complemented by an unforgettable panoramic view of the San Diego Bay and the Downtown skyline. This room includes a built-in bar and a private wrap around patio over the bay for you and your guests to enjoy.

Capacity may vary on the type of function

Harbor View Room

Seating Capacity – Up to 80 guests

The Harbor View Room has large bay windows that highlight our remarkable scenic view of the San Diego Bay and the Downtown skyline. This room includes a built-in bar and private patio that is set directly over the bay with the perfect backdrop.

Capacity may vary on the type of function

Dining room of tom hams

Private Dining Room

Seating Capacity – Up to 40 guest

The Private Dining Room is located on the 2nd floor, just off the main dining room. This space is perfect for groups of 15 to 40 looking to hold a small, intimate lunch or dinner gathering.

Capacity may vary on the type of function

scallops on half shells
steak with mashed potatoes and grilled carrots
Cucumber slices with toppings
chicken on rice with grilled carrots
plated hors d'oeuvres
salmon with tomatoes and capers

What Others Have to Say


“I have been to Tom Ham’s Lighthouse for brunch many times and I am never disappointed. I leave happy and extremely full. They have a variety of foods, such as the usual fruit, bacon, sausage and Eggs Benedict.
Tom Ham’s is amazing and one of my favorite Brunch spots.”

What Others Have to Say


“Been here a few times for work functions and Restaurant Week. love San Diego’s beautiful skyline and the restaurant’s prime location is the perfect spot to see it. Servers are very nice and attentive. For food is very good and bartender will make you any drink you ask for. I’ve tried their New York Steak, Linguini and Clams, Calamari, Ceviche, Crème Brulee, and Chocolate Mousse Cake. Ample parking in their lot and you can always take a romantic stroll after dinner to take in the scenery. Tom Ham’s is a must if you’re in San Diego.”

What Others Have to Say


“The renovation is beautiful.  Clean, airy and spacious.  Half the restaurant are windows taking advantage of the stunning bay views.
We came here today for a private event, it’s like the entire restaurant was ours.  We sat in a nice smaller room with all windows,  our private team of the wait staff which were focused, friendly and professional.”

Birdseye view of the bay with boats

Free self-parking located in front of the restaurant for dining and event guests

Hotel room with two double beds

Four hotels located on Harbor Island all within a half mile of Tom Hams Lighthouse. Event hosts may be eligible for special group room rates for out of town guests.


Event Contact Form

Our event and banquet team would be happy to provide pricing and availability for your special day! Please use the form below to receive packages and more information.